My second wife -- the better wife.
This is my first post to The G-Spot and most of the stories and musings here will not take on the tone of this one. As Dragonslayer (a nickname given to me by the love of my life), I must raise my sword in defense of my wife — the better wife — the shining gem in my crown. My ex spouse cannot seem to move past our divorce and get on with her life. Even though remarried, she continues to write (or attempt to write) a divorce blog with thinly-veiled jabs and digs at both my lovely wife and me. In her divorce “no-no” list, she says people should never get married if they met online. My gorgeous wife and I met online and we fell in love before ever meeting in person. There’s more nonsense there, but I’m not going to link to any of her virtual groaning boards.
First Wife Syndrome – It’s the real deal
I’m sharing an article with you, from The Post Divorce Chronicles, that depicts my ex spouse to a tee — right down to her interrogations of my children after they’ve visited us and her bitterness at our readily apparent, joyful happiness together. We’re happy despite all her projection and narcissism. I hope it gives strength to the other better wives out there, struggling with an ex wife’s desperate attempts to continually interject herself into their true and covenantal marriages. Here’s the link to the post.
In all fairness, there is a post there about Second Wife Syndrome. This syndrome occurs when the second wife harbors some jealousy and bitterness toward the ex spouse for various reasons. And for the record, my wife is anything but jealous and bitter toward my ex spouse. In fact, she prays on her knees daily for her (something I can’t bring myself to do yet). My wife has nothing but generosity and prayer in her heart for the woman — yes, my wife prays for the very woman that obsesses over and continually disparages her. I know, I’m damn lucky.
Does your new, better wife, have to deal with pettiness and jealousy from your ex-spouse? Spill it right here — on The G-Spot!
Hi Duane. Both syndromes are very real, and isn’t it a shame that either have to exist at all? Thanks for linking!
It is a shame that divorce seems to be the norm these days. There is a silver lining for some though. If it was’t for my ex-wife divorcing me I never would have met my soulmate Samantha! We share a wonderful relationship like no other! Thank you for your comment and your time Lee!
I don’t know anything about the circumstances of your first marriage, but I do know your second wife – and you hit the jackpot with her! Apparently this is just the price you have to pay to be with a woman who is brilliant, hard-working, a great mom, unbelievably kind – and, oh yeah, extremely hot!
Thank you so much Nellie! I have indeed hit the jackpot with Samantha, and I would go through the pain of a thousand divorces if I knew she was there waiting for me. (she certainly is pleasing to the eye huh?) hee hee Thank you so much for your comment and God bless!
Hi Duane, I surely can “feel” the blessing that Samantha has brought in your life. I am happy for you both. You should give tips on couples’ happiness and keeping the flame on! This post was hilarious and powerful and the title of the blog, what can I say, is very promising and easy to “remember”! LOL
Thank you so much Magda for your kind words! I’m glad you enjoyed reading it! I have more posts coming down the pike so stay tuned, it will get interesting. Thank you for the translation yesterday, I love that commercial!
Duane,
It’s Kenny G.! Long time, no speak! Drop me a line when you get a chance. I miss having you over for paintball. Hope all is well.
I’m sure my husband would agree with you! And I’m sorry you have to go through this. I know how hard and frustrating it can be dealing with an obsessed ex. I also understand why your wife prays for the ex wife. It’s sad to see someone tear themselves up out of pointless insecurity like that.
Thanks for you comment and sorry it’s taken me so long to reply. I’ve been so busy with work and family that I haven’t had much time to tend to my site. But, that’s all changing in 2013!
Yes, I can’t yet bring myself to pray for her, but my wife does so daily, it’s crazy. My ex (especially) has really pulled some crazy stuff and it’s all subtle (so she can have plausible deniability). Anyway, I don’t want to dwell on it. Thanks again for coming by and I hope you visit again when I’ve got some fresh new posts up here.
Duane